There is a part of me who wonders what it would be like, especially in today's post-modern society, to be an Epictetus or Diogenes or a student of one of them. It seems they would sit in their school all day long and lecture and have conversations with visitors and teach them where their thinking ought to be fixed. Poverty was nothing to them; their needs were met and they had either a small family or no family at all to care for. I wonder if I would be up to the challenge of living a poor philosopher's life.
We get a glimpse into the comparison between the life of a busy, ambitious orator and a philosopher in book 3, chapter 9.
After explaining to Epictetus why he was going to Rome, the orator asked Epictetus what he thought of the matter. Epictetus could provide no answer as to whether the orator would win his case or not, but Epictetus could inform the orator if his judgements were right or not (v. 2, p. 160).
Our actions are based on our judgement; and as long as our judgement is good, then our actions will be good.
Epictetus observes that both the orator and his opposition think they have sound judgement, yet they both disagree with each other. How is that? Therefore, the criteria for good or bad judgement must be something else (see. v. 5, p. 160-161).
To know whether he is good or bad judgement, he orator must subject his judements to examination. Furthermore, Epictetus demonstrates to the orator they he has never subjected his judgements to examination ... not when he was a child, a teenager or a young man (v. 6-10, p. 161).
Epictetus informs the orator that the central rule of a philosopher is "ensuring that whatever comes about, our ruling centre is and forever continues to be in accord with nature" (v. 11, p. 161).
Epictetus chides the orator for wanting to visit Epictetus only for show and that he (the orator) only came to see Epictetus and not to really come to know and learn of him. The only real way to know a person is to "become acquainted with his judgements, and show him one's own judgements in one's turn." Epictetus tells him, "Learn to know my judgements, show me your own, and then you can say that you've met me. Let's cross-examine one another; and if I'm harbouring any bad judgement, root it out, or if you're harbouring any, bring it to light. That is what meeting a philosopher is all about" (v. 13, p. 162).
Some might complain that by focusing time and effort on these matters (discussing good vs. bad judgement, talking to a philospher), they will lose their land or their "silver goblets" and cattle. To which Epictetus would say, "But I have no need of such things, and even if you come to acquire many possessions, you'll need more again, and whether you wish it or not, you're more poverty-stricken than I am" (v. 16, p. 162).
Someone who is focused on acquiring wealth and protecting it, sacrifices "stability, a mind in accord with nature, and freedom from agitation" (v. 17, p. 162). They are focused on things that perish and will turn to dust. They are distracted by all these things, so much so, that they "go to the theatre to kill time" (v. 20, p. 162). This mental disease is exactly what afflicts post-modern society today. People want kill time on their phones, flipping through social media, playing games and streaming content such as TV shows and movies.
So too, to us post-moderns: "let your desire drop; don't hanker after so many things, and you'll get what you want" (v. 22, p. 163).